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Mindfulness…Being in the Moment to Bring Calm to the Chaos

10/29/2014

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Stressed from the chaos of your everyday life?  Slow down and try to practice mindfulness, or living in the moment.  After just spending the weekend in Door County with its majestic landscape of fall colors, I was able to disconnect from the stress of life and just be in the moment.  How often do we just rush through our day, without stopping to really notice the world around us or our inner feelings? Sure this was easy to do in such a beautiful place with the brilliance of nature literally right beyond my balcony. But if we slow down every day and engage our minds and eyes in the present moment, we may just see things in a different perspective and experience calm.  On your frenzied drive to the office, have you ever paused to marvel at the sunrise or really looked at the canopy of trees with their brilliant colors and leaves now blanketing the ground?  It can help you forget that jerk you just cut you off or not think about the day you face ahead with your mounting list of tasks to get done.  Try it sometime and see if it changes your perspective and brings you calm, even if just for a few moments!



Research has shown the positive effects of the practice of mindfulness.  Studies show better quality of sleep, increased focus and productivity, improved mood, better weight management and lower rates of obesity.  A study conducted at Brown University published last week revealed mindfulness' health benefit, particularly on cardiac health.  Results showed an 83% improvement in markers of heart health when mindfulness was practiced.  Employers like General Mills and Google have implemented mindfulness programs for their employees trying to capitalize on job satisfaction and productivity of its workers.  The United States Marines has also implemented mindfulness programming for its personnel.  


So instead of being stressed today, take some deep breaths, take in the world around you, and just be!

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Five Ways to Beat Your Grumpy Monday Mood

10/27/2014

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Let’s face it, almost nobody looks forward to Mondays.  Coming off a fun and relaxing weekend and looking towards the work week, we all can get a case of the Monday blues.  But there are some things that you can do to help you push through that grumpy Monday mood

1.  Make sure you get enough sleep Sunday night or catch up Monday night by turning in early.  I am so guilty of not practicing what I preach here. The kids are in bed, leaving me with time to relax and to get ready for the week ahead. However research shows a mind body connection in which not getting enough sleep will lead to irritability and a down mood as well as a resulting decreased focus and productivity.  That’s not a great start to a Monday!

2.  Stay well hydrated throughout the day.  Often when we don’t drink enough water, our body feels tired and begins to crave high calorie, sugary foods that will just result in a quick boost in energy and then a crash.  Though that turtle brownie sounds yummy around 2pm, resist the urge!

3.  Get out and take a walk.  Try to squeeze one in even on your lunch break and come back feeling refreshed and more focused to tackle the rest of your day.  Both the sunshine and exercise will do you good! Exercise releases those ‘feel good” chemicals in your brain called endorphins.  And, we need a minimum of 20 minutes of sunshine a day to maintain a healthy Vitamin D level in our bodies.  As we approach the winter months, some people experience seasonal affective disorder (or SAD), and need sunlight and increased Vitamin D to improve their mood.  Then there are those of us who do believe that snow is indeed a four letter word!

4.  Find some quiet moments in your day to calm and relax your mind whether it is through mindfulness, yoga, meditation, praying or reading a devotional.  Practice 10 minute mindfulness at your desk, clearing your mind of the day’s clutter and going to a place in your mind that is relaxing or makes you happy and peaceful (it can be real or imagined).  Or just spend a few minutes taking slow deep breaths and letting them out slowly and deliberately. 

5.  Find something to be grateful for every day.  Or focus on something happy or positive.  After all, you can’t have a positive and a negative thought at the same time so let the positive win out.  And the law of attraction says that positive thoughts generate positive energy in return.

 If all else fails, keep the coffee coming and avoid everyone until you’ve at least downed your first cup!  Toss in a little chocolate (all things in moderation) and Monday is looking better already.

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The 5 Things That Happy People Do

10/9/2014

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According to recent research published in Psychology Today, there are specific things that people who reported being happy consistently do.  Incorporating these into your life may just improve your happiness.

1. Think about the past fondly.  Happy people were shown to consistently remember the good things in their memories and to not dwell on the negatives.  They also tend to focus on the present and not get stuck in the past or looking way beyond to the future. So pause to remember the past but live in the present moment.  And don’t dwell on what has already been and can’t be changed!

2. “Catch” the emotions of others. Happy people were found to be much better at soaking up the emotions of others whether it was joy or sadness.  They are often those people who have a contagious smile as a result and that you can’t help smiling back at.  They also respond back to others’ smiling at them with a smile and internally feel joy when doing so.  We all could smile more and benefit from the warm smiles of others!  Try it and see if you get a smile back.

3. Live in a great community.  Past research has repeatedly shown that social connections can decrease the impact of depression especially on older people.  Happy people reported enjoying coming home to their community every day and reported a sense of “belongingness” in their community. Get out in your community and get to know your neighbors. 

4. Manage their money well.  Happy people were shown more often to budget their money and not impulse buy.  They had financial goals in place such as saving for retirement, paying off student loans or saving for college.  Managing your money now can create continued happiness in the future.

5. Spend their money on life experiences instead of material items.  Instead of spending their money on expensive homes, fancy cars, and extensive wardrobes, happy people tended to spend money on vacations, hobbies or other experiences with family and friends. After all, you can’t take your riches with you when you die.

 Although research suggests that we are born with a happiness set point determined by our genetics, there is also research citing that happiness can be developed and honed like a habit.  So choose happiness by engaging in the above behaviors and see if it will change your outlook on life.  It can’t hurt! 


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