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Reconsidering Your Nightly Routine

9/16/2014

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Is Your Smartphone Ruining Your Sleep?

By Michelle DeLaRosa, LCPC
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor


 In a 2014 survey reported in the Sept 5,2014 issue of the Chicago Daily Herald, 68% of teens reported that they sleep with a smartphone, tablet or other device on all night. Research released this week suggests that the use of technology devices like smartphones before bed can interfere with good quality sleep and, worse yet, impact on current and future health.  Teens and adults alike use technology throughout the day and often check emails and texts, tweet, post on Facebook, go on snap chat, and upload their latest photos to Instagram.  But unfortunately researchers have found to the detriment of their sleep quality.  The blue light generated from our devices actually tricks our brains into thinking that it is daytime, not bedtime.  This in turn inhibits the production of melatonin, a hormone essential for sleep.  However, melatonin is also involved in maintaining a healthy immune system and fighting illness.  Too little melatonin from repeat nightly use of smartphones (and even other electronics like TV and computers) has now been shown to affect the ability to recover from illnesses that an individual might face in the future, such as cancer and heart disease.  More immediately, this research also suggests a link to irritable and depressed mood in the morning.  With teens who are already struggling with depression, this night time ritual is having a negative impact.  So teens and adults alike should reconsider use of their devices at bedtime.  Especially in our chronically sleep deprived society, this habit can really be preventing us from getting not only adequate  quantity of sleep, but also quality.  Focus on something else instead fornightly  winding down time such as reading, journaling, or chatting and leave the devices to the morning when we want the light emitted from them to wake us up.  


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Facebook...Is Social Media Making Us More Social or Less?

9/11/2014

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With Facebook reaching its 10 year anniversary earlier this year, it has become part of our everyday culture.  Teens and adults alike log on to the popular social media site to share thoughts, opinions, musings and photos as well as generate support for different causes.  Its original intent was to promote social interactions and connect with others, but is it really successfully doing that?  For many teens and adults alike, Facebook creates the illusion of social relationships, especially for those who struggle with friendships and peer interactions in everyday life.  However, it is also creating or worsening depression among many teens especially as they observe their friends’ “highlight reels”. They are inundated with all the social gatherings that they weren’t invited to and all the fun that their friends are supposedly having.  For teens who already have a difficult time socializing, this can make them feel even worse about themselves.  Unfortunately, Facebook also allows people to be bolder in the things that they say than if they were face to face with people.  This can result in bullying especially because most teens are friends with just about everyone on Facebook from their school instead of their actual circle of friends.  In my experience as a counselor, Facebook is not always a good thing for teens.  The social media site is great in providing groups and forums for people with a common issue.  As a mom of a child with a severe peanut allergy, I have found a parent support group that has given me lots of knowledge, news and an ability to connect with others in that struggle with a food allergy.  However, I also have worked with several teen clients who have found Facebook pages devoted to individuals who self injure.  In one case, the teen had never self injured but was looking for a place to belong.  Needless to say, she eventually tried self injury.  So what do we do when a teen is struggling and their use of Facebook is not making life any better?  I always encourage parents to monitor their child’s/teen’s social media use, either by friending them, having their password or having another trustworthy sometimes younger family member be friends with them to monitor activity.  Also, talk to your teen about only friending people they actually know on Facebook, not a friend of their friend.  If your teen struggles emotionally, limit their use. There is no need for them to be spending hours on Facebook if it’s only going to make them feel worse after they log off.  Finally, encourage your teen to continue to socialize with their friends in real life.  Encourage them to invite friends over or go to Starbucks’s or out to eat.  That way they are actually socializing and learning important social skills.      
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